The One Question You Should Ask During Every Recruiting Appointment

by | Aug 19, 2025

One of the most important, open-ended questions you can ask during an interview is:

What problems are you trying to solve right now?

Having problems is part of the human existence and trying to get them solved is part of what makes life worth living.

Working on a problem focuses an individual’s life energy, and it’s often the well-spring for motivation.

What problems are you trying to solve right now?

When asking this question, you’re also gaining important information about what could cause a recruiting prospect to make a change.

Until you clearly understand the problem, your solution will not be relevant.

What problems are you trying to solve right now?

Finally, when you coach someone through solving a problem, a connection is built.

If the problem is big enough, you’ll have hired someone who has endeared themselves to you and your organization.

It’s a simple interview question with lots of great upside.

 

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Creating Pacts to Avoid Distraction

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Look for Individuals Who Want to be Measured

Look for Individuals Who Want to be Measured

It’s not that people with a growth mindset don’t experience failure—they just see failure as an opportunity to learn new things, to be challenged, and to experience curiosity. This is an important topic to cover during interviews and follow-up conversations with your prospects. If you find someone who likes being measured, you’ve likely found someone who will push through the inherent failures of growing a real estate business and experience long-term success.