A Quick Recruiting Lesson from Gene Hackman

by | Mar 6, 2025

Gene Hackman has been in the news a lot lately. He played many great roles during his long career and was beloved by many.

His recent passing reminded me of a scene from his 1994 film “Wyatt Earp” where he famously said those who were not related to him by blood were “just strangers.”

While this is not a great way to view your family and personal relationships, it is a helpful framework for understanding recruiting.

Why?  Most of your recruiting contacts start out seeing you as a stranger.

We’ve all been taught to be wary of strangers, and your recruiting prospects are naturally wary of you.

At this stage, the goal is to build some basic awareness.

It’s first: I’ve heard of you.

And then: I’ve heard some good things about you.

Your recruiting communication should initially be focused on just this objective.

For example, you may want to send a quick text to someone you’re trying to recruit that says:

Your name came up in a conversation earlier this week.  I thought I’d take the opportunity to introduce myself.  I hope to have the opportunity to connect with you sometime soon.

High-performing recruiters and hiring managers are constantly building awareness with dozens of individuals.

Why?  So, to those prospects, you’re not just another stranger.

Strangers don’t make many hires.

 

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