Recognizing Cognitive Dissonance

by | Mar 19, 2026

Cognitive dissonance is the feeling of discomfort individuals experience when their beliefs run counter to their behaviors.

It often happens after new information is presented to someone.

In the mid-1950s, psychologist Leon Festinger first proposed a theory of cognitive dissonance suggesting that people have an inner need to ensure that their beliefs and behaviors are consistent.

Inconsistent or conflicting beliefs lead to mental disharmony, which people strive to avoid.

As a recruiter or hiring manager, you’ll constantly be running up against cognitive dissonance when connecting with your prospects.

Why? You’re frequently introducing the new information that causes the mental disharmony.

Prospect Behavior:  I am working for Company A.

Recruiter’s Conflicting Belief:  Company B is more capable of engaging your talents.

Cognitive dissonance is a powerful force in an individual’s mind, and candidates will sometimes do strange or irrational things to alleviate mental disharmony.  (i.e., A prospect might tell you:  I’d never change brokerages… even if they’re unhappy.)

High-performing recruiters become experts at detecting cognitive dissonance, and then they employ strategies to minimize its negative effect on the recruiting process.

 

 

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The Attrition Variables

The Attrition Variables

While these attrition constants still have the greatest influence, there are some emerging attrition variables worth noting. People also tend to leave companies when: They feel like they’re not doing as well as others in their peer group outside the company. They feel like they’re not as far along as they should be at a certain point in life.

The Attrition Constants

The Attrition Constants

If you’re not focusing most of your retention effort on these issues, you’ll miss the mark. If you’re not focusing most of your recruiting effort on exploiting these weaknesses among your competitors, you’re missing the best opportunities.

The Persistence Mindset

The Persistence Mindset

A leader equipped with this mindset can have a profound effect on the life and career of each individual they engage. It works because an agent is getting a real-time glimpse of what it would be like to work on your team. But it only becomes believable when it is persistently applied over time.