Why Hiring Managers Should Have More Quick Conversations

by | Aug 8, 2025

recently read that the Dutch supermarket chain Jumbo introduced “chat checkouts” lanes where customers can enjoy a leisurely checkout with a cashier rather than using self-checkout.

Why? Because they learned many of their customers missed chatting with a real person when buying their groceries.

These customers were not looking for deep conversations or meaningful friendships.

They wanted 5-minute conversations with a cheerful person who would recognize them if they were a regular.

There is something human and meaningful about this type of exchange.

And it’s something every recruiter and hiring manager should be using to build their recruiting database.

When you first connect with a recruiting prospect, try making a friend in the first five minutes by showing interest, asking questions, and listening.

Many people just want to be heard and receive some thoughtful attention.

It’s a gift you can give almost anyone.

Making dozens of 5-minute friendships will add meaning to your life and the lives of others.

And it’s a great way to earn permission for future contact.

 

 

The Simple Psychology of Real Estate Recruiting [2nd Edition]

Unlock the secrets of effective real estate recruiting. Revised to include actionable frameworks for sharper execution and to help you turn psychological theory into a repeatable recruiting system.

Creating Pacts to Avoid Distraction

Creating Pacts to Avoid Distraction

Notice the two parts to Nir’s formula: a pre-commitment and an external force to keep you accountable to that commitment. For recruiting setting goals and time-blocks in your schedule is not enough. Most people need some kind of external accountability, as well.

Look for Individuals Who Want to be Measured

Look for Individuals Who Want to be Measured

It’s not that people with a growth mindset don’t experience failure—they just see failure as an opportunity to learn new things, to be challenged, and to experience curiosity. This is an important topic to cover during interviews and follow-up conversations with your prospects. If you find someone who likes being measured, you’ve likely found someone who will push through the inherent failures of growing a real estate business and experience long-term success.