Trust Me, You’re Not Alone

by | Apr 13, 2026

I’m a big fan of Sean Cannell.

Sean helps aspiring entrepreneurs develop YouTube businesses, and he has captured almost 3.5M subscribers.

While he’s really good at sharing his video domain expertise, he’s even better at online marketing.

He has a knack for connecting with newbies and inspiring them to accomplish things they didn’t think possible (hmm, sounds like the job description of a real estate manager).

One of the techniques he frequently uses is to identify a common problem that most individuals in his target audience share.

For example, one of his recent marketing emails said:

With all the competition, it may feel intimidating (as a beginner video maker) to create videos as good as the more experienced YouTubers.

Then he adds this phrase: Trust me, you’re not alone.

It’s a subtle distinction, but Sean is not offering a solution to get people to engage.

He’s offering an opportunity to join with others who are struggling with similar problems and together find a solution.

There is something disarming about this approach, and it can be applied to recruiting.

When engaging recruiting prospects, spend more time identifying and validating their problems and less time delivering solutions.

It feels less intimidating to join in with others who are also struggling than to talk with the expert who has all the answers.

 

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The Attrition Variables

The Attrition Variables

While these attrition constants still have the greatest influence, there are some emerging attrition variables worth noting. People also tend to leave companies when: They feel like they’re not doing as well as others in their peer group outside the company. They feel like they’re not as far along as they should be at a certain point in life.

The Attrition Constants

The Attrition Constants

If you’re not focusing most of your retention effort on these issues, you’ll miss the mark. If you’re not focusing most of your recruiting effort on exploiting these weaknesses among your competitors, you’re missing the best opportunities.

The Persistence Mindset

The Persistence Mindset

A leader equipped with this mindset can have a profound effect on the life and career of each individual they engage. It works because an agent is getting a real-time glimpse of what it would be like to work on your team. But it only becomes believable when it is persistently applied over time.