Want More Referrals? Tell Others Your Goals

by | Jul 1, 2025

You’ve probably noticed how fundraisers communicate their goals and keep you updated on the progress of a campaign.

It could be one of those poster-sized thermometers you’d see at a community fundraiser, or something more digital like you’d see on a GoFundMe page.

Fundraisers have learned something basic about human nature:

If you communicate your goals, others will feel compelled to help you reach them.

The same principle can be used to recruit.

When you’re meeting an agent in your company or another potential referral source, let them know about your recruiting goal.

My goal is to add five talented, experienced agents to our team this year.

Is there anyone you’ve connected with recently whom I should be talking with about joining our office?

This request is even more powerful if you ask right after you helped them solve a problem or make progress toward one of their goals.

At this point, the need for reciprocity kicks in, and suddenly, you have someone assisting you in reaching your objective.

 

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According to a nationwide survey of more than 1,900 agents, those who consider themselves “experts” at generating leads earn nearly four times as much as agents who struggle with this activity. It’s probably safe to say, the same principle holds true for recruiting.

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But if you’ve been around long enough, you know the business and real estate world doesn’t allow us to indulge in this comfort. It requires us to adjust or be left behind. It also rewards those who recognize that the connection between people, systems, and opportunities needs constant adjustment.

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To keep yourself from getting caught in this trap, do the hard work of creating and maintaining a large and vibrant recruiting database. Poor prospects don’t look so great when you have lots of other choices.