Emotional Recruiting

by | Sep 26, 2023

One of the hiring managers I work with asked a great question earlier this week:I just set up a recruiting appointment with a prospect to whom I was referred.In my email response to her initial questions, I was more emotional and not as streamlined or process oriented.Should I be more direct and scripted in my responses? When recruiting, the first priority is to connect to the human side of a person.Process, metrics, and data have their place, but it shouldn’t be given priority over the emotional connection.It’s important to first relate to and connect with a prospect’s fears, aspirations, and sometimes irrational concerns. Seth Godin once wrote:You must embrace the fact that human beings are 94% irrational, making decisions based on feelings, expectations, and culture.By ignoring the feelings, you only have a 6% chance of winning.

 

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The Attrition Variables

The Attrition Variables

While these attrition constants still have the greatest influence, there are some emerging attrition variables worth noting. People also tend to leave companies when: They feel like they’re not doing as well as others in their peer group outside the company. They feel like they’re not as far along as they should be at a certain point in life.

The Attrition Constants

The Attrition Constants

If you’re not focusing most of your retention effort on these issues, you’ll miss the mark. If you’re not focusing most of your recruiting effort on exploiting these weaknesses among your competitors, you’re missing the best opportunities.

The Persistence Mindset

The Persistence Mindset

A leader equipped with this mindset can have a profound effect on the life and career of each individual they engage. It works because an agent is getting a real-time glimpse of what it would be like to work on your team. But it only becomes believable when it is persistently applied over time.