How to Use Networking Events to Score More Database Additions

by | Dec 2, 2025

Many of you are familiar with Brian Buffini’s classic elevator pitch:

If you were going to buy or sell a house, or had a friend or family member who was going to buy or sell a house, do you have an agent you would refer them to?

Most people say no and then you reply:

I’d like to be that person. Here’s my card.

The agent then puts the new contact into their database and starts marketing to them, providing them things of value, and building a relationship.

The same approach can be used to build a recruiting database.

If you connect with a competitive agent during a meeting or at a networking event, try closing the conversation with a similar question:

I know you’re probably happy with [their current company]. But if you someday got to the place where you needed to change offices, do you have a place in mind?

I’d like to be that place. Do you mind if we stay in contact?

If you’re adding a couple of these agents to your recruiting database each week, you’ll build the necessary foundation to produce a consistent flow of experienced agent recruiting leads.

The best recruiting is done in bite-size pieces over time recognizing that what you plant today will lead to a harvest at some point in the future.

 

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The Attrition Constants

The Attrition Constants

If you’re not focusing most of your retention effort on these issues, you’ll miss the mark. If you’re not focusing most of your recruiting effort on exploiting these weaknesses among your competitors, you’re missing the best opportunities.

The Persistence Mindset

The Persistence Mindset

A leader equipped with this mindset can have a profound effect on the life and career of each individual they engage. It works because an agent is getting a real-time glimpse of what it would be like to work on your team. But it only becomes believable when it is persistently applied over time.