Recognizing Cognitive Dissonance

by | Jun 2, 2024

Cognitive dissonance is the feeling of discomfort individuals experience when their beliefs run counter to their behaviors.

It often happens after new information is presented to a person.

In the mid-1950s, psychologist Leon Festinger first proposed a theory of cognitive dissonance suggesting that people have an inner need to ensure that their beliefs and behaviors are consistent.

Inconsistent or conflicting beliefs lead to mental disharmony, which people strive to avoid.

As a recruiter or hiring manager, you’ll constantly be running up against cognitive dissonance when connecting with your prospects.

Why? You’re frequently introducing the new information that causes the mental disharmony.

Prospect Behavior: I am working for Company A.

Recruiter’s Conflicting Belief: Company B is more capable of engaging your talents.

Cognitive dissonance is a powerful force in an individual’s mind, and candidates will sometimes do strange or irrational things to alleviate mental disharmony.  (Ex. A prospect might tell you:  I’d never change brokerages… even if they’re unhappy.)

High-performing recruiters become experts at detecting cognitive dissonance, and then they employ strategies to minimize its negative effect on the recruiting process.

 

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Mike Walker suggests that most meetings (including recruiting appointments) get off on the wrong foot because expectations are not properly set early in the conversation. To avoid this, he suggests using a set of “framing questions” to get your prospect ready to hear your value proposition and potential offer.

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Perhaps you have some standard stories you share during the recruiting process.

While this is a good baseline, Rich Millington argues that stories become super-powered when they are customized to match the worldview of your listener.