Ask for Permission to Follow-Up

by | May 23, 2024

One of the leaders I coach recently asked:

When I follow-up with my recruiting prospects, I feel like I’m annoying them.

How can I be persistent without being a pest?

We become annoying to others when our overtures are unexpected and/or unhelpful.

The first problem is easy to solve–the second is more challenging.

When you’re near the end of the interview, ask for permission to contact the prospect after the interview.

Try something like this:

Not sure about you, but I feel like we’ve had a great conversation today.

[pause and wait for them to agree with you]

Would it be OK if I occasionally followed-up with you to cover some of the issues we didn’t get to today?

[most people say yes]

Do you prefer text messaging or email?

What email is best for you?

Asking permission to follow-up changes the way recruiting prospects view your follow-up information—it’s now expected and has a better chance of being appreciated.

 

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